When You Can Trust Yourself, You Can Trust Your Instincts
Here’s a question for you (and please be honest)
This is an excerpt from my latest book called Be The Love: A Women’s Journey From Fear To Freedom which comes out in paperback tomorrow!
It’s from Chapter 2: Believe In Your Own Magic of BE THE LOVE (St. Martins Essentials).
If someone told you a juicy secret and instructed you not to tell anyone else, could you keep that secret? If not, then remember this:
People that break trust usually do not trust themselves in various situations in their lives.
When you break trust, it usually results in feelings of guilt in your heart. It’s that pang of guilt and feeling bad about something that is a key indicator of the edges of your boundaries and your levels of integrity.
You know you have done something wrong, and that wrongness then manifests into feelings of shame that have no place to go but inward. This event then triggers a block in your ability to be intuitive and truly loving.
When you set clear boundaries in your life, you begin to see patterns of how much you value yourself, your time, and your energy.
A method of starting to set healthy boundaries in your life is to make a pledge not to harm others and to always be a person driven by integrity.
Try affirming these qualities in the following ways for yourself:
• I am trustworthy
• I am reliable
• I am honest
• I believe in my own magic
What I’ve understood over the years and more so recently is that learning how to Be the Love when you are on a healing journey to trust yourself is the ultimate remedy to pretty much anything that the Universe sends you as an obstacle, challenge, or emotional hurdle.
Healing always begins with self-trust.
It takes some training to set boundaries you will not cross, some serious practice, and some commitment to trying it out, but it’s completely worth it to watch pain transform into power and fear morph into the comfort of faith.
We can change the world when we first activate this magic within ourselves.
With Love & Gratitude,
Sarah Prout.
ps. Be The Love (paperback) is coming out tomorrow. Order your copy today.